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Fantastic story! I always did like Jim Croce. NRA life member, thanks to Steve. Running on empty... | |||
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If: 1. The young lady was above the age of consent for the jurisdiction in question 2. The young man was an invited guest in the home 3. All activities were consensual Then: I don't see that the Mom had any right to pull a gun on the young man. Obviously Mom and daughter have some communicating to do regarding her behavior in general and in the house in particular but it is hard to see what the young man did that could, if the circumstances were as noted, be considered in any way criminal or worthy of being held at gun point. I do hold a CCW permit and do carry most of the time. Also I, in partnership with a good woman, did raise two daughters one with an MBA and currently a large oil company executive the other a recent graduate of a top 20 law school so the stresses of raising girls are not a mystery. That said I don't, given the circumstances as noted, see what the young man did to deserve having a gun drawn on him. | |||
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OTOH, I suspect the young man in question won't be going back to that well anytime soon. xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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If the Mom had been the mother of the young man and the young woman visiting HIS home would she, the Mom, have pulled a gun on the young woman and handcuffed her? After all in the "Modern" day and age young men and young women are supposed to be fully equal and identical for most if not all purposes. | |||
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Aside from raising the questions of whether the judge is qualified to be a dispenser of "justice", and whether the mother should be allowed to carry a gun, it does point out one thing we already knew.... Those in the legal system feel perfectly okay about abusing it to achieve their own ends...one of which is often condoning their own violations of the law and protecting the "thin blue line" no matter what. | |||
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I suspect that this corrections officer may have a rather short lived career. Peter Be without fear in the face of your enemies. Be brave and upright, that God may love thee. Speak the truth always, even if it leads to your death. Safeguard the helpless and do no wrong; | |||
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One can always hope so. Wish we could say the same for the judge. My country gal's just a moonshiner's daughter, but I love her still. | |||
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Perhaps the judge was a bit smatter that the participants of this thread – regardless of whether you think it appropriate for the judge to quote Jim Croce in his opinion. You are all presuming that the adult daughter had full privacy rights within her bedroom area which may very well not be the case. Lawfully state and federal courts have stated that a person has full privacy rights to the space within a dwelling for which they are paying for the right to live within that specific space. However a child living gratis within a parent’s home does not have these same privacy rights and I am unaware of any state or federal court that has distinguished between a minor and adult child under these conditions. We do not know what the specific agreed upon conditions between the adult daughter and the parents that allowed that adult daughter to live within her parents’ house as an adult child. But as the adult daughter attempted to hide the adult naked boy in the clothes closet gives me a pretty darn good idea that that having sex within her bedroom was definitely a violation of the conditions of the daughter’s/parent’s’ agreement. For those of you who think the poor 19yr old boy’s rights were violated, think what likely would have happened from the dawn of time up until 70 or so years ago. Most likely the boy would be dead rather than trying to sue the mother. I’m thinking a load of rock salt into the bare ass would be appropriate punishment for two 19yr old idiots! Want to have sex get your own apartment or go rent a motel room... Jim "Life's hard; it's harder if you're stupid" John Wayne | |||
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Stupid move on the young man's part ... Momma's house ... Momma's rules. Did she over react? Yup. Was he stupid? Yup! Mike -------------- DRSS, Womper's Club, NRA Life Member/Charter Member NRA Golden Eagles ... Knifemaker, http://www.mstarling.com | |||
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We're not talking about "violating privacy rights" here. We are talking about a woman who pointed a gun at a person not committing a crime...or doing anything else so far as we know to justify having a firearm pointed at him, loaded or otherwise. In EVERY state I know of, that constitutes a crime. Especially when the person doing the pointing is doing it in anger. Putting an unarmed person in fear of death or great bodily harm under those circumstances is a crime. If the woman has a legitimate "beef" about her daughter's use of the room, that is something she should settle with her daughter, not by assaulting with a deadly weapon the visitor who was invited there. | |||
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Jim Croce, a talent that was taken from us way too soon. For the rest of you puritan assed phuckers, when did you get your first piece of ass, Now Shut The Hell Up!!!! Young people were doing what young people do and I bet the mother in this case had done the same damn thing. we know she did at least one time or she would not be a MOTHER!!!!!!!! Even the rocks don't last forever. | |||
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So the Assault charge stemming from the punch is OK also ? On what grounds ? The thin blue line is in full effect. Cold Zero | |||
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When I was a kid - am 63 now - and visiting a friends house I'd get my ass spanked in a heart beat if I was disobedient to the rules of my friends house. Would also likely get my ass spanked again when I got home again for being disobedient at my friends home as well as being an embarrassment to my parents... I learned very quickly to not be disobedient at home as well as at a friends house. Point a gun at a naked body that didn't belong in my house that was hiding in a closet - you betcha if one is close at hand. Would I shoot the littlemprick once I found out my daughter had invited the punk into my house - no - but I'd likely beat hell out of the little punk for disrespecting my house and then likely toss his bare ass out into the front yard followed by his clothes! You guys are getting rapped up in the 'thin blue line' thing and forgetting to think what you'd do to a punk ass 19yr old attempting to boink your 19yr old daughter in your house. Guess if you're ok with that then perhaps the daughter has learned her sense of morality directly from you. I just wonder what you as a parent would do if this occurred at 3AM in the morning while everyone was asleep... Jim "Life's hard; it's harder if you're stupid" John Wayne | |||
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Yes I guess she would have learned most of her sense of morality from me. And one of the first things I taught her was that you don't beat the crap out of other people or threaten them with firearms just because they don't behave the way she or I or you would. Like it or not, the girl in this instance is an adult. That means SHE gets to make the decisions about sex in her life. You don't, and her mother doesn't. If she was your daughter you could always throw her out of the house and then have NO influence over how she lives her life because you wouldn't be there to counsel her when it is appropriate. But one thing you cannot legally do is threaten (assault) or beat up (batter) her guest in your home. If you think you can and that it is perfectly okay, then I'm not sure you should be able to own a gun. It sounds to me as if this has become a "control" issue with you and, quite simply, when your kids become adults parental control these days is legally reduced to a situation of trying to influence the progeny to do what you want, not forcing them to. I am more than a decade older than you and have quite successfully raised a pair of kids, one boy and one girl who aren't too much younger now than you are. I remember when the law (Penal Code) in California and other states specifically allowed husbands/parents to physically discipline (beat) wives and children to make them obey. But those days are long gone. Now is now, and there is no turning back the clock. My country gal's just a moonshiner's daughter, but I love her still. | |||
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I am just glad I never got caught. | |||
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Ditto on that. Hell, my old girlfriend's mother would have got me to leakin in more than a few places if she was packin.It's been 35 years and I bet she STILL hates me! I guess one person's restraint is another person's excess. Thankfully, in some places in the modern USSA, one still has the right to do what they damn well please to protect their own, regardless of who disapproves.As it should be. One of the lucky ones Rick DRSS | |||
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It already appears the parent is having zero influence upon what the daughter decides to do in her parents home. Geez AC you didn’t buy into Dr. Benjamin Spock’s teachings on how to raise your children did you? While I have zero doubt that many if not most of my 6 children – 3 of each male and female – had sex before marriage but absolutely none of them would have thought about disrespecting my wife or I by having, or attempting to, sex within our home before marriage. And for the second part of your question/statement; All of our children have understood before they reached the age of legal adulthood that they were required to live within the rules of our home and should they desire to flex their adulthood beliefs that they were fully free to do so in a residence of their own choice at their own expense. Same holds true today… And yes we’ve had all of them move back in to our home at some point after they first moved out and only one failed to abide by our house rules. And yes I did inform that son that had 3-days to find another place to live and that during that 3-day period he was one wrong step away from moving immediately. Our children never feared us as children but often complained about our house rules… But their respect us as parents and for our house rules has only grown as they’re raising their own children. Jim "Life's hard; it's harder if you're stupid" John Wayne | |||
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I never read anything by Dr. Spock, so I can't answer that question either yea or nay. And to be honest, I don't hear you saying that you ever assaulted anyone with either your fists or a handgun, so I doubt you would now, regardless what your children did or didn't do that you found "insulting" to you or your spouse. Bragadoccio is one thing, but actions are another. All of us might like to THINK we could and would take actions like that mother did, but those of us with the self control and sense God gave a goose know that is NOT the right thing to do if one wants to retain the respect of their children and the others around them. What the mother did was WRONG, and the judge was not fulfilling his obligations by substituting his biases for the rule of law. ...just like many of the judges making whacko pseudo-scientific environmental precedents are also wrong in making similar "personal values" decisions these days to overturn legislatively established processes. My country gal's just a moonshiner's daughter, but I love her still. | |||
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If that would have happened in my home with my dauther (which I don not have) aI can assure that the boy woulkd have gotten his ass kicked for being in my house with mny dauther without my permission. If my dauther (that I do not have) wanted to invite sexual partm=ners over she could get her ownplace, other wise my house my rules. Violate them and pay the price _____________________________________________________ A 9mm may expand to a larger diameter, but a 45 ain't going to shrink Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing had happened. - Winston Churchill | |||
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JWP475....and just how is the young man supposed to know he should not be in your house without your permission? Remember we are apparently dealing with young folks over the age of 18 i.e. adults. | |||
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Stubble - Don't waste your breath on another "theorist". He doesn't have a daughter, and he only thinks he knows how he would act. All part of the "macho", "I'm in control" image until he has been in the situation and can report how he DID act. At any rate, if he assaulted the young man, in most jurisdictions he could expect to be arrested if the assault was reported and quite possibly charged after the facts became clear. The part which makes me laugh a bit, is all the folks who say how they would lay the rules down and their children would, by God, obey them! In most instances, when a girl invites a boy over for a little hanky-panky, the parents never even know about it. Only the truly unlucky ever get caught en flagrante delicto (SP?). Usually the first sign parents see is when their daughter shamefacedly tells the mom that she has now missed 2 or 3 of her "periods" and that she is scared to death of her father's potential reaction(s). The mom then usually intercedes, tells the father, and the girl is allowed to stay at home, or is otherwise helped to deal with the ensuing pregnancy. Most fathers don't physically or emotionally abandon or reject their daughter when she needs them the most. (And it isn't totally unknown that a similar happening is what led to her dad's marriage and her birth to begin with.) My country gal's just a moonshiner's daughter, but I love her still. | |||
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JWP, if you kick her out, where do you think she's going to go. Let me tell you where, SHE WILL MOVE IN WITH THE BOYFRIEND. So while you are sitting in jail on assult charges, and loosing your rights to own a firearm, she will be banging him at his place. In many jurisdicitions it could be even worse then that. Since your house is her legitimate residence, you can't just kick her out without going through a full eviction proceedings. That's right, even though it's your daughter, in your house. Since you've used violence in her presence, you could be presented with restraining order, preventing you from going near her, or her residence. In other words, the end result could be a judge kicking you out of your own house, and now your little girl can bang the boyfriend in your own bed, and you could not interfer without going to jail. Your solution may have worked 300 years ago, it doesn't work so well today. | |||
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The key word here Mr.Canuck is “YOUR” Home! The rights of the home owner trump the desires of others living in that home. In this case the female was a guest in this home as well as the male. The adult offspring does have the RIGHT to make a decision about her sex life! In that you are correct, where you misunderstand she doesn’t have the right to practice the act just anyplace she chooses. I say if you believe they do have that right I'm not sure you should be allowed to own a gun! You are comdemning her for making rules in her own home, while trying to impose your rules on others who are not in YOUR home. I think you need to go back to Canada where they don't allow you to own a handgun, and surely not to carry concialed. Canadian rule, and if you ignore that rule you will ge handcuffed. The fact is she nor her invited friend have the right to engage in the act in SOMEONE ELSE'S HOME! If this had been my home they both would have found themselves dressing on the front lawn, and neither one of them would be living in my home again. I agree that the male was no more responsible than the female,in fact less, they both violated some else’s home. My home my rules,a guest in my home has no right to invite other guests into my home for any reason without my consent and no adult can do anything they want in my home regardless if they are my children or not and especially after adult hood even when invited there by me! .................................................................................................................................. ....Mac >>>===(x)===> MacD37, ...and DUGABOY1 DRSS Charter member "If I die today, I've had a life well spent, for I've been to see the Elephant, and smelled the smoke of Africa!"~ME 1982 Hands of Old Elmer Keith | |||
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Funny story but.....invited guest by legal resident of the home, both over the age of consent: Can I pull a gun on you if you put your jack and coke on my coffee table without using a coaster? My house, my rules right? I'm guessing Larry's attorney wasn't terribly swift. | |||
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I also have an inquiry in to him about what constitutes assault with a deadly weapon in Texas. I'll let you know what I find out. My country gal's just a moonshiner's daughter, but I love her still. | |||
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Really! I find it interesting that that EXACT QUOTE, word for word, comes off the net. Surprising that said lawyer would answer your inquiry on a weekend, and manage to quote that web page word for word. xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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I didnt ask for legal counsel, just for free info on reckeless endangerment, which it turned out is on his website. Why should he provide more than what he already had "canned"? And as you have confirmed yourself, I didn't write it. so you can either take his word for it or not. Plain fact is, it is easy to spout off about what one would and wouldn't do...it is easy to be a big macho dude when all one has to do is posture on a keyboard. If you want to learn about aggravated assault in Texas, go read here: http://www.ehow.com/about_6563...-assault-texas_.html | |||
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Care to supply his name? Otherwise, I think someone is trying to piss down my back and tell me it's raining. xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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No, my BIL who is a recently retired attorney of over 50 years experience provided his website to me and told me that I could get more information from him by paying for it, but that there was no need to....that the information on his site is clear and correct. Again, either take it or leave it. Your choice. I asked my BIL; he gave me the answer posted by this eminent criminal defense attorney practicing in Texas. Nothing backhanded about that. Do you think his information is incorrect? And, if so, on what basis? | |||
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Oh, I get it, you were fibbing when you said you contacted him. Not to worry, it's a small lie, but it doesn't help your credibility, now does it? Quit pissing, you're done with that ruse.
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Well, as far as I am concerned, contacting his site and quoting what he says there, IS contacting him. Again, you can either believe what he says or not. Your choice. I would also be interested in your response to the link I posted regarding aggravated assault in Texas. I found nothing on the previous site with my inquiry about assault with a deadly weapon in Texas, so I "googled" it. What I got from that was a number of links, of which the one I felt clearest and simplest I posted above. ( http://www.ehow.com/about_6563...-assault-texas_.html ) | |||
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xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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Well, Gato, I am not sure which Bee is under your saddle, but it appears to be one of: 1. You are irritated that I could get legal counsel from an criminal defense attorney as to what constitutes criminal endangerment in Texas, without paying for it, or 2. That I could get it on a Sunday without having to speak personally with the provider of the legal counsel, or 3. That the information I got from him and his public information site does confirm that the actions of the female corrections officer re the visitor in her household apparfently meets the Texas definition of the crime of reckless endangerment? I DO note that rather than dispute the material presented , you seem to be resorting to the old lawyer's trick of attacking the messenger rather than the message. Perhaps TWO crimes were committed in violation of Texas law....Reckless endangerment, AND Aggravated Assault. I also note you so far have no comment on that possibility either. My whole purpose in this BTW is to keep persons from from getting into expensive deep legal s--t in the belief that a Castle Doctrine law automatically protects them from the consequences of pointing a gun at anyone on their property who angers them but has not comitted any illegal act by being there. | |||
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I'm "irritated" that you flat out lied to buttress your non-existant case about "reckless endangerment" in Texas. In case you haven't noticed the case in my opening post occurred in Florida, not Texas. Why don't you "consult" a Florida attorney on the web. Try to keep up while you're tilting at windmills. xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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I thought the case was in Texas, hence the Texas attorney. But, if you don't think ADW and reckless endangerment in Florida are similar to those offenses in Texas, YOU might want to check that out. AS to my lying, You may think so, but I don't. To buttress my view, I anted to get a criminal lawyer's opinon about what constitutes ADW (Assault with a Deadly Weapon) in Texas where I thought he situation occured. I suspected the mother had possibly committed that act. So, I asked my BIL about it. He told me about the website of the defense attorney to whom I referred, and that MOST of the criminal offenses commonly seen in Texas were such as those handled by that firm. So, I went there. I assumed I might not get an immediate response to my inquiry, but that I might get counsel as to what constitutes such an offense in Texas, just by asking via e-mail. Apparently, I am not the only person who approaches them with such inquiries. Lo & behold, they post several pages of what he (they, whoever) believe makes up such offenses, in his/their professional opinion. And they give away that opinion, advice, counsel, whatever you wish to call it, in hopes of demonstrating their experetise and attracting the business of persons charged with such offenses. So, I did contact one of the leading defense attorneys (or his firm) via their webite. But I did not have to wait for a response. Their canned response (which fully provides the legal opinion I wanted) was plain for all to see, including me. So there was no need for them to provide more. But none of that makes it not a contact, nor does that make it not their professional counsel regards what constitutes such offenses. I used the "copy" feature of my computer to bring their advice to this forum because I did not want someone such as you to accuse me of misinterpreting what they said there. I tried to find ADW elsewhere as well via Google when I couldn't find it at the defense ttorney's site, but found instead that it is apparently known as Aggravated Assault in Texas. Hence the link to that definition which I posted. Now if you think that means I lied, well then think whatever you want. And act however you want as well. If YOU someday end up charged with an offense because of threatening someone with a deadly weapon, at least it won't be because you didn't know that you were probably comitting a criminal offense. So enough of this. I have tried to help, only to be told to leave the country, called a liar, and so on. To hell with the topic. | |||
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I love it. If she had accidentally touched one off and shot the kid or her daughter the anti-gun nuts would go off on it and you guys would be crying in your morning cheerios like little bitches. It's all well and good to say that you would have beat the kids ass, blah, blah, bla, macho BS, etc., but to point a loaded weapon, assuming it was loaded, at the kid and handcuff him naked is way beyond what she should have done. Take the dumb f**ks badge. | |||
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I might say the same for you on your bravado on the net, and on being so sharp on Texas law! Canuck what you are posting about assault is assault on the street and we are talking about in your home. In Texas that word HOME brings up a whole different set of rules! I agree with you however the home owner in the case we have been discussing could have handled it better, but if it had been in Texas she broke no law! I find everyone here must agree with you because once a “know it all” speaks nothing in word or print will change his mind. As the Indian said about the white man, "BIG WIND COME FROM EMPTY CAVE!" Enjoy the ride on that high horse! ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' BYE for now! ....Mac >>>===(x)===> MacD37, ...and DUGABOY1 DRSS Charter member "If I die today, I've had a life well spent, for I've been to see the Elephant, and smelled the smoke of Africa!"~ME 1982 Hands of Old Elmer Keith | |||
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What she did may meet somebody's definition of wrongdoing, but if one juror at the trial has a daughter I can't see a conviction happening. At least not in any jurisdiction I'm ever likely to be living in. | |||
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Then I guess you give total assent to a cop losing his/her cool and sticking a sidearm in the face of anyone, anywhere, for any reason. If you speak for the majority in PA, remind me never to set foot in that state. The inmates are running the asylum. | |||
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