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30 years off from the dating scene have left me a bit rusty, but it is kinda like riding a bike. For the last two months, a young(20 yr.old college student/soccer player) chickee at work has been coming on with booby shots and suggestive flirting. I could have reported her for sexual harassment, but decided to play along and see where it went while brushing up on my skills. Last week I called her hand after she urged me to take her to dinner. After work, I set up a dinner date for the next night at 5 Star restaurant. OK, here's where the weird shit happens. I picked her up and she has on this frumpy coat covering herself. She doesn't speak a dozen words on the way to the restaurant. When we got to the restaurant she bolted from the car and wouldn't let me escort her inside. Dinner was deathly quite and she constantly pulled her sweater over her breasts. On the way home she was still silent. I tried to hold her hand in the car and she withdrew saying she didn't like to be touched by anyone, not even her parents. Finally, when I got her back to her car, she bolted again without thanking me. She has now become a recluse at work and won't speak. | ||
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Sounds like she was playing a game with you the whole time. My guess - An office bet of some kind. ________ Ray | |||
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No doubt it was a game! But since this began when she started work, I doubt it was an office bet 'cause she didn't know anybody. No time for a clique to form. | |||
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Female................ Hang on TITE !! | |||
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You are at least 50, and she is 20....that's a big age difference, maybe she's become uncomfortable with it? Do you look your age, or do you look younger? Maybe she told a friend and it was more then her friend could handle. 5 Star restraunt, Her idea, or yours? That's usually not a good first date. 20 years old? Is she Hot? How many other guys are chasing her? How much time elapses between when you asked her out and the date? How could these issued conspired against you? Maybe she just discovered she was knocked up? In any event, you are two to three times her age, and young girls today can be very volitile. I would suggest looking for someone in her 30's, that's finished her degree, and is a little more stable. | |||
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What the hell is a mature man doing trying to hump someone young enough to be a daughter. I can see who the weird one is. The girl was just looking for some friendly "work" companionship from a father figure type guy and you, thinking quite highly of yourself, gets a boner thinking your still a stud and most of this was your imagination running wild. Grow the hell up and apologize to this young girl. If you can't do that, you are the freak. I work for the largest food company in the world and am always surrounded by management trainees right out of college, and most are very pretty......however, I never forget that these young and impressionable kids are there to learn from people like me...not be taken advantage of by the very people there to help them. Grow up and leave the children alone. | |||
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The "boobie shots and suggestive flirting" part causes me to vote "psycho" on her part. The fact you asked a 20yoa who is both co-worker and freak out on a date shows that you need to back up a bit and put training wheels on the ole cycle. (IMHO) No matter how it works out if this gal decides to complain on you, you're going to get dinged at work even if she started it. Find someone a bit more mature away from where you earn your bread and butter and give it a go again but avoid workplace romances. I went thru the big D a few years ago and my second wife is fifteen years younger than I, but a very mature lady and my best buddy. Finding yourself out on the market again can be a trying experience and women in this day and age are a bit different than they were thirty years ago... Good Luck | |||
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 Hot damn, I'm glad I have you guys for a gut check! I know, I'm crazy. I'm 54 but folks tell me I look 40. In shape, tanned and ideal body weight. No brag, just fact(Will Sonnet). Two months of booby shots, bend over and wiggle, plus begging to go out tell me she didn't want a daddy. Maybe a "Shugga daddy". I think she just wrote a check her ass couldn't cash. | |||
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Your age (54) divide by 2 (27) plus 7 = 34. 34, That's the age woman you should be looking for.  | |||
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Sniper, where did that calculation come from? It's pretty good, actually. The old addage - Never pick up your pussy and your paycheck at the same place - is probably more important today than ever. Tons of guys have been fired from their jobs in company efforts to prevent a lawsuit by a woman. Don't add to the list. | |||
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i'm guessing it was a bluff, she didnt figure it would get called... go big or go home ........ DSC-- Life Member NRA--Life member DRSS--9.3x74 r Chapuis | |||
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Woodrow, I heard that rule about 30 years ago. I don't remember which wise man it was that shared it with me, but I think it was old advice even then. Bob, Although I've been married for the last 10 years, there are alot of young people in my industry, so I still have significant second hand exposure to the modern metropolitan dating scene. Since it's been 30 years, let me give you a scouting report: The good news is that the average city girl is a lot agressive today, then they were 30 years ago. Many guys of our generation loose out for respecting the old norms and not acting quick enough. On the downside, they are more wired into their friends, which shortens the peer-feedback loop. Remember, once a girl updates her status on Facebook, all her friends are going to want Pics and details, and all the guys that were lurking, are going to come out to compete. Anytime things speed up, there are new ways to crash. Let me give you two examples. Everyone has heard about the E-mail break-up, but here are two you may not of hear of, the Facebook breakup, and the HR breakup. The facebook breakup is where she just updates her realtionship status on Facebook to Single, and never tells you directly.  The HR breakup is truely insideous. The HR breakup happens when you are dating someone at work. Instead of a casual conversation, you learn about the breakup as part of an HR investigation. Now the company is required by Federal Law to conduct a full "investigation", taling to your supervisor, manager, co-workers, ect. Most companies don't like this kind of Drama, and even if you didn't do anything wrong, Federal Law prevents management from taking any action against the complainer. It's a great laugh for her and her friends, not much fun for the poor bloke. The game is much the same, just faster. Where 30 years ago you were riding a bike, someone sneeked into your garage and put a 150hp motor on it. The engine will enable you to cover alot more territory in a short time, but can also provide for more frequent, dramatic crashes. | |||
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Kidding around and teasing with a dirty old man at work where it is a safe invironment and is possibly advantageous career wise, is one thing, when you asked her for a date, it became another. Time to show and tell so to speak. She realized what she was doing and, rather than hurt your feelings, took the date. Now she is avoiding you so you won't have any further ideas about your studdliness. I agree with the post that ask what are you dong panting after some teeny bopper? Other than the double ententre's, what do you two talk about? Aim for the exit hole | |||
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Please do not beat yourself up over this. Many on the forum have done that for you and unjustifiably, I add. A reality check for themselves is in order. Do, however, run like the wind. There are better aligned prizes to be found. Luck, Stephen | |||
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Being an airline pilot I get that same stuff all the time from young flight attendants. It's just a game with these young 20 something year old girls. Let it go. If you ever were to catch one it'd be more a pain in butt than anything else. Girls that age are high maintenance, silly little things that are more fun to look at than to actually have anything to do with. Be the adult apologize and leave it alone. | |||
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Bobster, as a single mid 40s man, I can verify what others have posted. Most modern 20something women don't know whether they are shitting or going blind. AND, they can reverse course quicker than a cutting horse. Also remember that just b/c one lets you stick her does not mean you are dating, friends or will ever see her again---even if she enjoyed it. Also, if you do intend to continue your quest, get your digits in fine working form b/c you won't be using your cell phone to talk--you'll be im ing or texting. It's a different scene altogether and expect some curve balls that you won't see coming much less be able to hit. If you keep it out of the office and place your lower age limit at 30, you'll probably suffer less shell shock and may even smile---on occasion. After all, you're dealing w/ a life support system for a twat. Good luck. | |||
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Chase all the young ones you want! Just make sure they are of legal age. MAKE DAMN SURE THAT NONE ARE FROM WORK!!!!!!! Robert If we can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people, under the pretense of taking care of them, they must become happy. Thomas Jefferson, 1802 | |||
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What a fantastic thread. Below is some of the most intelligent advice I've ever seen online. I'd apologizer very casually & ask her to forgive you for being a dopey old guy who misread the situation. Then keep it strictly business thereafter.
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One more old adage comes to mind: Don't get your meat where you get your bread. ______________________________ "Truth is the daughter of time." Francis Bacon | |||
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And never dip your pen in the company inkwell.  Mike ______________ DSC DRSS (again) SCI Life NRA Life Sables Life Mzuri IPHA "To be a Marine is enough." | |||
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You didn't turn up wearing a "comedy" tie or something like that did you? | |||
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If that had been me, I would have fainted half way through dinner from trying to hold my stomach in. Aim for the exit hole | |||
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I found this poll on Facebook: Pedophile or Psycho? I’m a 20 year old college student and work part time to pay my bills and tuition. At the company where I work there’s this old creepy guy that just went through a divorce. I felt bad for him and I’d try to be nice to him. He thinks he’s all cool and everything but he’s like 50 or 60 or something – you know how it’s hard to tell just how old they are when they’re older than your parents? Well, here’s where the weird shit happens. The creeper starts asking me what I’ve got going on day by day and when I mention I didn’t have anything going on the next night…He ASKS ME OUT!!!! So, I’m like this is too f***king crazy – I’m trapped. I’m thinking this is just work friend stuff or at least I hope that’s what’s going on. Anyway, I decide to wear something totally butt-ugly that will cover me like a freakin’ burka or something so he doesn’t get any ideas. He insists on picking me up and the whole time I’m thinking I’m going to be found in a shallow grave somewhere. I’m almost relieved when he takes me to this old frumpy restaurant where we used to take my grandmother on her birthday. It’s like prom night 1969 or something. I’m about to gag and I just run inside when we get there. He keeps looking at my tits even though I’m wearing a sweater that looks like a blanket and I keep trying to cover myself and I never even took my overcoat off. You’d think maybe he’d get the hint. It’s like he’s like got Alzheimer’s or something. We have absolutely nothing in common to talk about so we don’t say a dozen words during dinner. It was like a freakin’ funeral or something. After all of this, he starts grabbing at me in the car and tries to hold my hand…ICKY!!!! I told him I don’t want anyone my parent’s age to touch me. As soon as the car stopped I jumped out and bolted. I think that was the closest I’ve ever come to being molested and killed by some old psycho dude. I have to hide from him at work now and should probably find a new job just to stay away from him. So much for trying to be nice to someone. Question: What the F**k is going on? Choices: A. He’s a pedophile B. He’s a masturbating old pervert C. He likes to sexually abuse children/young adults D. He is a psycho (snakes in head) E. Other (Explain) ______________________________ "Truth is the daughter of time." Francis Bacon | |||
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That probably sums it up pretty well. Why don't you try dating someone closer to your own age????? You would probably have much better results and not be seen as some dirty old man. ______________________ Age and Treachery Will Always Overcome Youth and Skill | |||
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HAHAHAHAHAHAH.... I don't care who you are...that's funny right there
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Bobster, I'm trying to be funny not mean. It's just that young women and older men can have two completely different takes on the same situation. I feel your pain, brother. ______________________________ "Truth is the daughter of time." Francis Bacon | |||
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Not too long ago a good friend of mine had one of those cute, 20 something's move in with him. The fact that she was featured in a "Girls Gone Wild" Video tell you about everything you need to know about here. Three months in the "Eye of the Hurricane" was about all he could handle. | |||
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I was new in town and I went to the Senior Citizen's Center to find out what sort of social programs they had and all. They had me fill out an personel informations sheet. I was very surprised when, a few days later, I got a letter from them telling me I wasn't welcome there. One of the questions on the sheet was: "What do you like to see in a woman?" Apparently "my dick" wasn't the right answer.  Aim for the exit hole | |||
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That was one of the funniest things I have seen in a long time.....Well done Forrest! ****************************************************************** R. Lee Ermey: "The deadliest weapon in the world is a Marine and his rifle." ****************************************************************** We're going to be "gifted" with a health care plan we are forced to purchase and fined if we don't, Which purportedly covers at least ten million more people, without adding a single new doctor, but provides for 16,000 new IRS agents, written by a committee whose chairman says he doesn't understand it, passed by a Congress that didn't read it but exempted themselves from it, and signed by a President, with funding administered by a treasury chief who didn't pay his taxes, for which we'll be taxed for four years before any benefits take effect, by a government which has already bankrupted Social Security and Medicare, all to be overseen by a surgeon general who is obese, and financed by a country that's broke!!!!! 'What the hell could possibly go wrong?' | |||
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Can you post some pics of her before I vote in the poll? I think some of those pics you mention could help me decide on which way to vote. | |||
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I voted psycho | |||
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Me too. | |||
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The young lady is young enough to be your daughter. Bloody hell man, fucking GROW UP. You two would have as much in common as a pork chop and a synagogue. | |||
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Give me a frigging break! What she wanted may be subject to interpretation, but what he wanted seems quite clear and it wasn't to discuss the far reaching implications of the rising value of the Chinese Yuan. xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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Your the one being set up for a claim of sexual harassment. Don't be suprised when you get called in. NRA CRPA DRSS | |||
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Yeah baby, yeah!!!  Isn't that every middle-aged, single man's dream? What exactly is wrong with it(other than the fact that it's at work)? | |||
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This sounds like the most accurate assesment. | |||
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Before your date she talked to her girlfriends about it and they told her she was wasting her time. She probably was really intrigued by you, but couldn't handle the peer pressure. Find another, but stick to women in the early to mid 30's. Your age devided by two plus seven is an excellent rule of thumb. It worked for me and now at 52 I have a 38 year old wife and a one year old daughter with hopefully another one on the way. This is my first family. STAY IN THE FIGHT! | |||
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CONGRATULATIONS!! Glad to hear about your success. I hope Bobster's hunt ends with similar success. | |||
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