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I have been on the warpath all day. I found out that a student who I have in my class is not going to be diagnosed as Emotionally Disturbed because our school psychologist doesn't want him to be "labeled". This school psychologist does not live in our state and only travels in a few times a year. She has spent a half hour with this kid and has observed him in class twice. We have a meeting for this student today, and last night I received a word that this psych had already decided that she wasn't going to give him an ED diagnosis, even though she hadn't reviewed his behavior file. Livid, I sent this email to our superintendent, principal, vice principal and special ed director:
And the email included a photo of said student in the middle of a complete meltdown, with a headphone cord double wrapped around his neck and pulled tight. And we wonder why this system is failing..... I had better get to my meeting. Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | ||
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Wow Jason…you have my sympathy. But, you have asked a question and answered it yourself. My mother taught 3rd grade for 30 years and quit for similar lack of common sense in the system. She could tolerate it no longer and that was in 2000 in conservative Texas in a conservative country community. She has a Master’s in Library Science so she took over the Middle School Library where she basically set her own rules and governance and teach kids the way she saw fit. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ J. Lane Easter, DVM A born Texan has instilled in his system a mind-set of no retreat or no surrender. I wish everyone the world over had the dominating spirit that motivates Texans.– Billy Clayton, Speaker of the Texas House No state commands such fierce pride and loyalty. Lesser mortals are pitied for their misfortune in not being born in Texas.— Queen Elizabeth II on her visit to Texas in May, 1991. | |||
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Bad behavior got you time with the classroom paddle in my day. Then you got it again when you got home. As a result, kids rarely caused such trouble. Again, if they did, corporal punishment was justly handed out. ~Ann | |||
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Does that kid have fetal alcohol syndrome by any chance? Teachers have to put up with a lot of unnecessary BS, and are grossly underpaid, imho. | |||
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I assume this school receives Federal Money. The child may be entitled to an IEP (Individual Educational Plan). A diagnosed intellectual disability is an automatic qualification. This opens a lot of doors to services. You probably cannot tell the parents this, but if I were that child’s parent, your information subject to discovery, would be grounds to overturn this position and obtain the IEP. You said there was an IEP meeting. That maybe the route to go. If the parents want/child needs services, that is the route they should go. Beautiful posting stuff about this situation. I know it is frustrating. My Wife left teaching for accounting. The final straw was a step-dad who killed one of her student’s mother on the way to parent pickup. I know in my jurisdiction, I would personally sign that child to Court where we could get services including residential placement. | |||
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wow. child does not belong with the other kids. I'm sorry he is being dropped on you. | |||
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Not to divert from the obvious point of your post, but aren't you in a teachers' union? Where do they stand and what do they do in such situations? | |||
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Jason I have inserted myself in Violets classroom and am very pleased. I took more than the half hour allotted for Parent/ Teacher conference last fall and found that troubled students were separated from the body of the class rather than immersed. I did voice my agreement and supported the concept that " public education" is for the good of the body or the majority, rather than the individual. In Public Health, a rotten part of the body is simply removed in order to not infect the rest of the body. I am in Violet's class and speak with her teacher five days a week. I can only guess that the rest of the parents of your students are either unaware or don't care. I hope you can educate them. | |||
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A very important concept!!!!! A huge concept!!!! Our whole society was built on this concept!!!! How was it ever lost????? | |||
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I used to coach my kid's t-ball and coach pitch games and had a kid one year that was straight-up disturbed. He would tackle base runners instead of trying to field the ball and throw them out. Anytime he got a hit, he would chase the ball instead of running to first base. Finally, he attacked another one of the kids while we were in the dug-out. Pushed him off the bench into a chain link fence and started waling on him....for no apparent reason. I told the parents he was off the team but was subsequently contacted by the YMCA that ran the program and was told that I could not unilaterally make that decision. The process to get the kid off the team went on for weeks. It was ridiculous. My sense of it is the organizations are worried about litigation. Damn lawyers. -Every damn thing is your own fault if you are any good. | |||
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This from a lawyer! I agree. We do a lot for prevention of litigation in my job. It causes a bunch of waste and angst. We are getting more and more extension of this into other areas of life. This is not good.
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Most state Supreme Courts have held under state constitutions that the individual child has a right to be educated. | |||
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Agreed, so my child's education, or the other 15 students in class education shouldn't be stunted because of the one problem. Drowning the entire class so the retard can have all the lifejackets doesn't seem reasonable. | |||
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I agree with you Scott King. The problem is the one problem is still entitled to be educated in the “least restrictive environment” that can meet the problems needs. Obviously, to us, this particular child’s needs are not being met. There are a few avenues here that I know would happen in my jurisdiction. I set at the control switch of a few of them. I would think the child’s parents would want and need help. I hope they obtained counsel familiar with these cases and fight the school and school hired psychologists for their child. I would think the school would have sought public offense charges concerning this student’s behavior or referral to child protective services if the child’s beg is so out of control. There are ways to get around the barn. | |||
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One view point (yours) is that it causes you a bunch of angst. The other is that it holds you accountable for your fuck-ups. And, after 34 years of doing a fair amount of medical malpractice work, I can assure you there are many. You know I'm right. Everybody always forgets this but when a drunk driver kills your wife or child...or a doctor kills your wife or child...or somebody else kills your wife or child through negligence or gross negligence....those damn Plaintiff's lawyers are your last and only line of defense to hold them accountable. -Every damn thing is your own fault if you are any good. | |||
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As a victim of medical malpractice, who never did file suit, I endorse what Mike Mitchell says. | |||
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Jason: I am sorry to hear. I am a teacher and my wife works in SPED. This school district would put up a fight against an idiot like that (I’m referring to the Psychologist). I guess my quest is why does your Superintendent not try to put a stop to this stupidity? | |||
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Wouldn't want to speak for Jason, but it's very different in rural AK. All of admin and i mean ALL! suffer quite a bit of abuse and hardship moving district to district. If losing your job over this particular student doesn't meet your planned migratory schedule, this might be a fight you pass on. Is the problem student native? A member of a prominent family? A school board members kid or the kid of the person you are currently having an affair with? You may well hand out a hall pass. In the end for many Alaskan professionals it's a job. Work when required, vacation at every opportunity, build towards the pension and have a solid exit plan. It's possible that all professionals involved are just trying to out last it all with the exception of Jason and hopefully some other parents. | |||
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I don’t disagree that there are bad docs out there. The point is that we are adding a lot of expense by trying to cover ourselves from the legal lottery. Everyone knows someone who lost a lawsuit inappropriately… and someone who got out of paying despite deserving to pay. Additionally not all bad outcomes are malpractice. | |||
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCvfXbDBzYc 6 Year Old Shoots Teacher, Untold Story ************* Real conservatives aren't radicalized. Thus "radicalized conservative" is an oxymoron. Yet there are many radicalized republicans. "When fascism comes to America, it will be wrapped in the flag and carrying a cross." - Sinclair Lewis Per my far-right friend: "reality sucks" D.J. Trump aka Trumpism's Founding Farter, aka Farter Martyr. Qualifications: flatulence - mental, oral and anal. | |||
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Access to guns and playing the video games there parents bought them... | |||
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