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No, it's just that I'm finding you tiresome, and addressing your fantasies uninteresting. You don't really expect me to follow you into the bushes, every time you try to divert the discussion there. | |||
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You had a fit when I asked if African Americans had gained something of value due to the atrocities that befell their ancestors who were brought here as slaves. The answer is self evident: yes, they are citizens of the most sought after country in the world. They have more opportunity for a better life here than 99+% of Africans who are living in Africa today. (Obviously that doesn’t excuse what was done to their ancestors, or the racism and discrimination that they have suffered and continue to suffer.) You cried racism and acted like I had done something to hurt your feelings because you were so offended by my assertion that, for African Americans living today, slavery had a sliver lining. Like an idealistic youth who couldn’t accept the truth of my statement you acted like I should take it back. Which begs yhe question, why do snowflakes think that they have a right to live a life free from ever being offended by the truth? I don’t know if that makes you a snowflake, but I don’t know what else you call someone who thinks that uncomfortable truths should not be mentioned, and that everyone should pretend that they don’t exist. I tried to trick you into admitting that there are at least some African Americans who would agree with me, because we all know that there are some African Americans who would agree with me. Of course, you couldn’t disagree because that would have made you look like an idiot, and you couldn’t agree because that would be admitting that it was a legitimate question that some African Americans would actually agree with. But by not answering, you in effect answered because you obviously wanted to disagree with me but couldn’t. Then, like a petulant child, I had to rub your nose in it… not my finest moment, but when someone insists on being intellectually dishonest, I just can’t help myself. Arguing in bad faith should be punishable by death, but shaming has to suffice. BTW, I know that you are an intelligent person, but on this one it seems that your heart overrode your brain. I don’t know why you would think that uncomfortable truths must be ignored in hope of sparing someone’s feelings. That is garbage and should be left to the blue haired kids with their safe spaces. BTW, it’s always fun when I ask myself “how in the hell can people think that way?!” And then I engage them in a discussion and the answer becomes clear: they can believe “their truth” because they ignore any evidence that would show the fault in their logic. Then you test this by introducing an uncomfortable truth. And like you, they come unglued. *for the record, I don’t think that you are a racist, but that comment stereotyping blacks as violent was racist as hell. Something you meant to work on. Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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You do, huh? Based on your fourteen-year-old black daughter who has most likely been raised culturally white. In your broader survey, please be sure to include demographic data so we can assign due weight to your findings. Please show where I had a fit at anything you wrote. You flatter yourself. At some point, embellishment crosses the line to lying. Did you say you voted for Trump? Lying doesn't bother you then. First you pretend to be looking for honest answers to your logical question, now you reveal your true thinking: the answer, you say, is self-evident. You don't want honest answers at all! Follow Trump's playbook much? And btw, YOU are the one displaying hurt feelings here, claiming I called you a racist--remember? Or does your memory only extend for a few paragraphs? Why should I want you to take back your question? I don't give a shit what you do with it. But I will predict that if you go around saying your logical statement-disguised-as-question in the wrong company, you'll likely regret it. As I warned you, if you go around making racist or racially insensitive remarks, don't be surprised if people take you for a racist. Not any particular new or wise insight there, just something for you to ponder when you next consider gratuitous ways to offend people. | |||
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There in lies the problem! There can be NO logical factual question we are afraid to ask because of sensitivities. These sensitivities become like body armor. Logic and facts must always prevail. When they don’t, as in the times we currently live in, the truth becomes fantasy. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ J. Lane Easter, DVM A born Texan has instilled in his system a mind-set of no retreat or no surrender. I wish everyone the world over had the dominating spirit that motivates Texans.– Billy Clayton, Speaker of the Texas House No state commands such fierce pride and loyalty. Lesser mortals are pitied for their misfortune in not being born in Texas.— Queen Elizabeth II on her visit to Texas in May, 1991. | |||
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I was curious after reading this thread last night. I called the black neighbor who moved and asked him this very question. He said that is something, at least some blacks, talk about amongst themselves. Andrew said, for the most part, if you are successful the answer was they would not change things. They dont like the way it came about, but anyone successful got there to some extent, on the backs of others before them. He said the odds are almost all blacks in the world had ancestors that were hold slaves, or slave holders. I asked if it was an offensive question to ask? He said blacks are not as fragile as whites think. Conversation is good for everyone, and stop watching The View. Being Andrew, he added. " offensive would be if you asked if chinese had bigger dicks than blacks" "Then I'd be offended". He doesnt speak for everyone, but was interesting to get his veiwpoint. | |||
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ J. Lane Easter, DVM A born Texan has instilled in his system a mind-set of no retreat or no surrender. I wish everyone the world over had the dominating spirit that motivates Texans.– Billy Clayton, Speaker of the Texas House No state commands such fierce pride and loyalty. Lesser mortals are pitied for their misfortune in not being born in Texas.— Queen Elizabeth II on her visit to Texas in May, 1991. | |||
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That's pretty racist right there. ~Ann | |||
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I find it very offensive that you would imply that my daughter isn’t black because she has been raised white. The truth it that she belongs to both groups. And the same can be said for the millions of other biracial kids. Excluding my Creole friend is offensive, yet there you went, taking chances, telling your truth. I disagree with you because there are millions of people who identify Creole as being African American. Many of them are both Creole and African American so they should know… Do you see how that worked, you said something that offended me, I disagree and expressed why. Isn’t that nice? I didn’t even have to warn you of the roving “groups” of “victims” who might assault you if you hurt their feelings. Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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I think you're lying when you say you were offended by my words. Earlier you didn't reveal that your daughter is biracial, instead of black. My kids are biracial too; their mother is East Asian. Growing up in America, going to predominantly white schools and associating more with white friends and family, I would say they were raised culturally white. If we'd lived in Japan, they'd have gone to Japanese schools and mainly associated with Japanese people, and I'd say they were raised culturally Japanese. You see? It shouldn't be hard even for you to grasp. You're just inventing reasons for you to be offended to make a point. Whatever it is, you made it ten posts back. | |||
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I’m guessing that you do realize that few African Americans are 100% African then? You know, slave rape and all. According to my BIL who is AA, that is the reason for the skin tone variation within families in the present day. Of course I am offended by your racist remarks. You probably don’t understand, but biracial black kids are still considered black by those who discriminate against them, and by society in general. Being a social justice warrior doesn’t change the fact that you have displayed a lot of racist traits. But I do support your right to express yourself. No need to apologize. But I’m sure that you now realize that the question wasn’t one that would be shocking to many African American, unless you believe that theback40 is lying. I have an idea that you have your mind made up. Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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My ex wife stopped this afternoon and dropped off some food, we get along very well. I asked her the Israel question. She thought it was important for the Jews to have their own country. But as she has no close ties to Israel, she would prefer there was no slaughter of jews. But, she said, she knows plenty of even her relatives that think no cost to high to have a jewish state. That all who died would be proud to be a martyr for the good of the people. She said there was nothing offensive about the question, why would I think that? As Andrew said, people are not as fragile as everyone in the media thinks. | |||
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ J. Lane Easter, DVM A born Texan has instilled in his system a mind-set of no retreat or no surrender. I wish everyone the world over had the dominating spirit that motivates Texans.– Billy Clayton, Speaker of the Texas House No state commands such fierce pride and loyalty. Lesser mortals are pitied for their misfortune in not being born in Texas.— Queen Elizabeth II on her visit to Texas in May, 1991. | |||
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ J. Lane Easter, DVM A born Texan has instilled in his system a mind-set of no retreat or no surrender. I wish everyone the world over had the dominating spirit that motivates Texans.– Billy Clayton, Speaker of the Texas House No state commands such fierce pride and loyalty. Lesser mortals are pitied for their misfortune in not being born in Texas.— Queen Elizabeth II on her visit to Texas in May, 1991. | |||
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I never said a word about Jews, the Holocaust, or Israel. Brown keeps trying to drag this discussion off into the bushes, but I ain't following. Others may play in that field as they wish. I don't have the time Brown does to invest in this discussion, or the inclination to repeat myself over and over as he does. Nor will I stoop to his level and tell lies. My points can be summarized as follows: - My mama taught me to not intentionally say things that are offensive to people. As a matter of good manners. - Suggesting to black people they ought to be grateful for slavery because it allowed them to be born in the US is likely to offend many of them. - A fourteen-year-old biracial daughter and a person with "a bit" of Creole blood aren't a good sample for the above. This is not a racist statement. - I never called anyone a racist. I said, and still say, that if you go around saying racist or racially offensive things, don't be surprised if people consider you a racist. That's logic for you. - Phony attempts to claim victimhood among the offended don't fly if you are an offender yourself. - Brown doesn't engage in good faith debate. He twists words, lies about his opponent's positions, and feigns emotional injury and offense. He claims offense on behalf of his daughter who's a poor victim of discrimination. Maybe he should ask the child's mother what she thinks of his question. - The claim that only racists call out racism is just an effort to protect racism. How can we stamp it out if we first don't call it out? | |||
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Roland, You are right that we should point out racism:
This post bugged me for days. I finally decided that I must have dreamt it up, as I honestly couldn’t believe that you would post something like this. Feel free to tell me if I am twisting your words: You seem to be attributing deficiencies in both work ethic and property rights in the descendants of slave in modern day, to their ancestors experience as slaves. Those are judgements, racially insensitive judgements. Unless I am misunderstanding, you are saying/implying that these deficiencies are so pervasive among African Americans that they are holding the race back. Or in its simplest form, you said: the reason that AA are lazy thieves is because of slavery. So of course they struggle. I hope that I am just so damned stupid that I have completely misconstrued your meaning. If I have then I am truly sorry for doing so. I can’t see how anyone could profess sensitivity as you have, while at the same time openly displaying your own prejudices against African Americans. But if I am correct in my assessment, then you are the absolute epitome of the racist white liberal who cloaks his racist ideology behind a facade of care and concern. Malcolm X had a name for such people, but it escapes me. He warned African Americans to be wary of such:
I hope that I’m wrong, hell, I absolutely must be wrong. There is no possible way that you are so stupid/blind/whatever that you think that you can say that an obvious truth, slavery had positive as well as negative consequences, is racist and offensive, and that the garbage you wrote above is not also deeply racist and offensive. Was Lane correct, are those who cry “racist” actually the most racist of all? Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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As my grandmother used to say, even a blind squirrel finds an acorn once in a while. | |||
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Rolland you are getting mad and twisting words too. At no point has anyone but you talked about blacks being "grateful" for slavery. that is certainly not how I put the question to Andrew. | |||
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I said "suggesting." "Suggest" means "to express or say indirectly." I didn't twist words. I still think the question suggests that blacks ought to be grateful for slavery. | |||
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The original quote that I know of was made by Muhammed Ali — whom we all know is a black man. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ J. Lane Easter, DVM A born Texan has instilled in his system a mind-set of no retreat or no surrender. I wish everyone the world over had the dominating spirit that motivates Texans.– Billy Clayton, Speaker of the Texas House No state commands such fierce pride and loyalty. Lesser mortals are pitied for their misfortune in not being born in Texas.— Queen Elizabeth II on her visit to Texas in May, 1991. | |||
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We will have to disagree on that one. As I said Andrew was not offended, but I in no way tried to make him feel grateful for slavery. We talked as adults do about issues. He was glad for the conversation, not the first time he had thought about it. And, more importantly for him, it was brought up, and not tip toed around or pretend it didnt exist. A little story about him, as it was funny as hell. We were both at the little village store getting coffee. We were standing in the corner talking, when a lady customer came up to us. I said, oh, sorry Heather, we're in the way. Heather says, "thats ok, I just want a little hot chocolate" Andrew spins around, holds his hand out and says "Hi! I'm hot chocolate" We all laughed our ass off. | |||
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I re-read the thread and you are wrong. When I posted, "To say or imply that modern black Americans ought to be grateful their ancestors were brought here as slaves is a racially insensitive, if not a racist thing to say," Brown didn't object to the question. Instead, he replied: "Many modern African Americans are thankful that their ancestors were brought here." If you missed it, that's probably because Brown thinks that wordage counts in a debate. | |||
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Andrew is your friend, right? Try asking the question (either version) to black people who aren't your friends. | |||
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Jason needs to walk up to the biggest black guy he knows and espouse his fucking internet racist commando bullshit. We'll see who gets knocked out first. -Every damn thing is your own fault if you are any good. | |||
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What do you think Mohammad Ali was suggesting?
What was he suggesting here?
Roland, you would have to be incredibly dense to fail to understand this point:
Should they be grateful? Mohammad Ali thought so. Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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I wouldnt call andrew a friend. We exchanged hello's, what you working on, conversations. He never came for dinner, or I to his place. And I would ask other blacks if there were any around. It's not the questions you ask, it's how you ask. If I want a conversation, I dont go about it by being insulting in my approach. | |||
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So, black people like Andrew discuss it with their black peers, and white people can discuss it with black friends? That sure makes it sound like a reasonable topic for discussion. But because a black stranger might get offended and “knock me out”, it is somehow racist and off limits here on AR? It seem odd that you and Mike are so fixated on the idea that black people react with violence when offended. It’s almost like you two have bought into a negative racial stereotype and are perpetuating it by repeating it. Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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Why not talk to people like people, not as an issue? Then we can discuss anything without offense. I put in many years as a town officer. I could discuss any topic that came up with any town or state folks, and nobody had to be offended. I told anyone with an issue. Come in, sit down and talk, forget the e-mail. Face to face was how things always got solved. Dont try to change a good thing. | |||
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“Emotional injury”? Is that what you believe happens when someone gets offended? No wonder you got so upset. When you said that I had “offended” you, how bad of an emotional injury did it cause? Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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Again, why should anyone care about your sense of offense? But I repeat myself. Evidently you don't care if you repeat yourself, but I don't have the time for it. If you don't get it, you don't get it. Please ask your question at every opportunity, and report back to us on the results. Why don't you start with your child's mother? | |||
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Incidentally, you might want to know that your use of Mohammed Ali's words is a logical fallacy known as appeal to authority. Look it up. | |||
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With your concern about logic, doesn't it bother you to resort to an appeal to authority? | |||
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Wrong. I mentioned his quote to point out that my question was one that the black community itself had wrested with, and that some would agree that they received something of value in their family line being removed from Africa and relocated to the US. This doesn’t validate either side, but it does validate the question and kills your and Mike’s assertion that it is too offensive to be mentioned or simply too racist consider. I done considered it racist or offensive. Others might, so what? The only authority needed in this situation would be Ali’s race. Nice try though… *BTW, the quote may have been mistakenly attributed to Ali. Some sources say that it was George Forman’s trainer. Not that it makes any difference. Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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Would you not consider Ali an expert on the Civil Rights Movement and more importantly an expert from a black man’s perspective? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ J. Lane Easter, DVM A born Texan has instilled in his system a mind-set of no retreat or no surrender. I wish everyone the world over had the dominating spirit that motivates Texans.– Billy Clayton, Speaker of the Texas House No state commands such fierce pride and loyalty. Lesser mortals are pitied for their misfortune in not being born in Texas.— Queen Elizabeth II on her visit to Texas in May, 1991. | |||
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Then why do you keep whining about how offended you are at my words? | |||
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That's not the issue. "To identify an appeal to authority fallacy, you can ask yourself the following questions: "Is the authority cited really a qualified expert in this particular area under discussion? For example, someone who has formal education or years of experience can be an expert. "Do experts disagree on this particular subject? If that is the case, then for almost any claim supported by one expert there will be a counterclaim that is supported by another expert. If there is no consensus, an appeal to authority is fallacious. "Is the authority in question biased? If you suspect that an expert’s prejudice and bias could have influenced their views, then the expert is not reliable and an argument citing this expert will be fallacious." https://www.scribbr.com/fallac...o-authority-fallacy/ | |||
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I'm not sure how anyone can be an expert in something that is personal feelings. | |||
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You hit on one of the reasons that citing Ali is fallacious. | |||
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Damn, are you telling me that you missed it in my last post? I’ll lay it out for you. I pointed out that you said something that I found offensive for the purpose of: -showing that you can be offensive, whether intentionally or not -to show you that the discussion can continue without me getting stuck on my “injured emotions” -to show you that in a disagreement people can be offended and continue to function like adults. These are things that you don’t seem to be able to grasp. Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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The quote from Ali(or Forman’s trainer?) serves only to illustrate the fact that this issue(that the African Americans owe their existence as Americans to the Trans Atlantic slave trade) is one that the black community already ponders. That fact alone proves that it is not “too offensive to be mentioned”. Does that mean that Ali was correct? Hell no, he was stating his personal opinion the HE was glad that HIS grandaddy got on that boat. He said nothing of how anyone else might feel. Jason "You're not hard-core, unless you live hard-core." _______________________ Hunting in Africa is an adventure. The number of variables involved preclude the possibility of a perfect hunt. Some problems will arise. How you decide to handle them will determine how much you enjoy your hunt. Just tell yourself, "it's all part of the adventure." Remember, if Robert Ruark had gotten upset every time problems with Harry Selby's flat bed truck delayed the safari, Horn of the Hunter would have read like an indictment of Selby. But Ruark rolled with the punches, poured some gin, and enjoyed the adventure. -Jason Brown | |||
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