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Granted, they've not gone as far as Nazi Germany, but where the Hell are they headed? Looks like euthanizing children is next on their agenda. http://www.news.com.au/world-n...dir2ev-1226731222463 Maybe I'm wrong and it's the ultimate democracy; ask for it, and you get it. | ||
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I wish we had similar laws, at least as far as consenting adults are concerned. Dementia or a long lingering death dulled by drugs is not my ideal exit plan. xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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I think dementia / Alzheimer's is everyone's greatest fear these days. The Big-C you can fight-off sometimes. With Alzheimer's, you're toast, slowly. I can only imagine the fear and anguish surrounding that process. Two men that were role-models and helped my professional career, both ended-up with Alzheimer's, one "early onset" at age 46. I wouldn't wish that on anyone; except maybe those guys that live under the rocks on the Political Forum. My sister-in-law is much like a four year old now. My brother started losing her when she was in her mid-50s. She's happy in her own world, at least by outside appearance, but the whole extended family is burdened with care-giving, and it contributed to the failure of one of my nephew's marriage. It would be a tough call, and not just one person's decision. You would want buy-in from the entire family, or the impact of the decision might have long-term, and unexpected outcomes. | |||
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I don't want to put my family through the trouble of seeing me go through Alzheimers. That isn't living anyway. IMHO | |||
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I see what kensco is saying, by starting with elective are they laying the foundations for state determined/mandated. I agree it can be a slippery state. As somebody who lost his grandfather and great-grandmother after long years of Alzheimer's I know that I wouldn't want my family to go through that. or any other sickness where I have to be taken care of for so long that it's burden having me around versus a blessing (many would debate whether having me around was ever a blessing). I've always figured I'd take up some really dangerous activities. (paragliding, hunting dangerous game with a boomerang) There'd be more suicide, except for the stigma and the widely held religious beliefs associated with it. Maybe this gives people an option they wouldn't otherwise have. I can see the short steps though from people choosing this to others saying "hey, why are we keeping these people around? if they've needed a triple bypass and other surgeries then probably their ticket was punched a while back and we're fighting nature." Red My rule of life prescribed as an absolutely sacred rite smoking cigars and also the drinking of alcohol before, after and if need be during all meals and in the intervals between them. -Winston Churchill | |||
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I didn't look at the video but I think a living will should be part of everyone's portfolio. As well as a frank discussion with one's doctor. And one of the things it should address is quality of life. Aim for the exit hole | |||
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I think euthanasia for all politicians who have served 3 terms would be a good idea - although three terms may be too many for some .... ________________________ Old enough to know better | |||
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There are some states in the USA which allow (and even assist) suicide for folks who have 6 months or less left to live, and Medicare helps pay for it. Oregon is one of those states. In Oregon, if on review you and your doctor agree that you have that little time left and you disease is incurable, causing you pain or lack of any ability to function without constant medical attention, you have the right to choose death if you wish. The doctor is allowed to prescribe a lethal injection for you, which your pharmacy will fill. The doctor will show you how to use the stuff, and you take it whenever and if you want to. Oregon has had that law for a decade or more now, and only a very few people have elected to use it. The ones who have used the process, went painlessly and quietly. Some folks who thought they were going to use it completed the application for permission underwent the medical board review, got the drugs, then NEVER ever used them, dying from whatever their ailment was. It has NOT even approached being "a slippery slope" to euthanasia in Oregon or the other states with a similar law. It is called the "Death With Dignity Act", and you can research it on line. Just remember when you do research it, almost everyone with an online opinion about it has some axe to grind, so in any case you have to evaluate their comments and situations carefully and reach your own conclusions. And, for everyone's info, physicians who prescribe the drugs after board approval of each individual case, are protected legally against lawsuits for having done so. My country gal's just a moonshiner's daughter, but I love her still. | |||
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This is the sad part if true. 'If only you had been a boy', my mother complained. I was tolerated, nothing more." Doug Humbarger NRA Life member Tonkin Gulf Yacht Club 72'73. Yankee Station Try to look unimportant. Your enemy might be low on ammo. | |||
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Like in many areas of "progress", we probably won't even recognize today's healthcare years from now. I just read an article last night about nursing home healthcare costs in Germany. A movement / trend has developed where German nursing home patients are being exported by their families to Poland due to the high cost of care in Germany. Newspapers in Munich compare the practice to "exporting trash". Oddly enough it seems to be working for the German families. The cost in Poland is half to one-third the cost in Germany, and the facilities are supposedly better run. Plus, Germany subsidizes the cost to house your relative outside the country to the tune of about $1,000 a month. As the article stated at the beginning, the 94 year-old patient, had forgotten her beloved cat, didn't remember if she had grandchildren, and had no recollection that she now lived nine hours away from her old home by car. Twenty-one percent of Germans are now over 65. In 2050 it is projected to be 30%. The future for us seniors looks a little bleak, but just think of the political power we'll hold, if we could just remember how to vote. | |||
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You're damn right it's a slippery slope. Just like all the other well known Liberal social engineering schemes we've endured. And the problem where it gets "slippery" is when you can't make a decision yourself because you're either mentally unfit or because you're unconscious. The temptation for the government through politicians of the wrong sort to mess into that becomes with this whole program, irresistible. For instance, Dementia and Alzheimer's are not the same thing. One is a form of the other, but plain old age dementia in itself is not the same as Alzheimer's. And it's not necessarily fatal like Alzheimer's. And unfortunately I'm in a position to know the difference based on family and nursing home experience. Almost everyone in their 90s has some amount of dementia. At about mid level dementia (a 7 roughly on the "BIMS" state defined scale) any answers you give to any questions put to you are deemed to be unreliable. However, that same person can and does in other respects enjoy being a human being on this planet. And though in a nursing home, they have certain things they are used to and look forward to (a ball game on cable tv for instance). And they still enjoy your visits and are happy to see you and sad when you leave, despite that there ain't much else going on during the visit. So do we really want the result to depend on "don't you want to go on and end the misery"? You KNOW what they will say. They will say yes to ANYTHING. Does a civilized person REALLY want some greedy child or other relative (a nephew for instance who never once came to visit) being the one to ask that question?? Do we want the person who's paying the nursing home bills out of "their" inheritance to make that decision? Everyone really, really needs to understand where exactly this goes. And it ain't pretty for anything that likes to regard itself as a caring decent society. This is another place where we get to decide if we want to go back to savage jungle ethics. And incidentally, I'd be careful of those Living Wills (I personally call them Suicide Notes). You have one and your hospital chart gets marked DNR. That means do not resuscitate. Think about that. Maybe you'll get lucky and family will overrule it. Or maybe hospital or staff will have sense enough to use good reason. But, if they DON'T, and you need a ventilator temporarily to get back from a stroke or heart attack, do you understand what exactly can happen?? You're just dead is what. I've had two instances in our family where just that happened. Don't wind up on the short end because of whatever happens to be politically fashionable at the moment. | |||
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As I said before, most of the OPINIONS you will find on the internet have to be read only with an understanding of where the commentators are coming from. Loudly against the "Right to Die" laws folks include doctors who don't give their patients credit for their roles as the SENIOR decision makers about their own deaths, political extremist's who see everything as a "plot" to ruin or even eventually end their OWN lives (they say "peoples lives", but really are often speaking out of fear for their own), deeply religious who believe only God should be able to make such a decision (though God may be actually using each suffering man as a way of implementing His power), and still others with a power or money turf which they sense is being invaded by the passage of such laws and recognition of the right to die on one's own terms and at one's own time. An equally long list exists of the reasons people fervently support "Right to Die" legislation. To get a realistic feel for what such legislation produces in the long run, one can't just accept non-factually supported opinions, or theoretical comparisons with evil regimes such as the Nazis...they have to look at how the laws are actually functioning in the jurisdictions where they exist...how they function, the protections in them, the comments of the close families of those who elected to participate in the process, etc.. We ALL WILL die. The question is, should the law protect our own ability to make the decisions possible about how and when we go? And IF NOT, then what ? Prolonged suffering for those with incurable long-term painful diseases? Forcing elderly spouses to commit murder as the only way to provide long overdue relief to their loved ones? What exactly IS a civilized response? My own living will says DNR if I suffer an unconscious episode as a result of heart problems. It says DO resuscitate if the unconsciousness is the result of low blood sugar. I would rather die a quick death due to heart failure than be nibbled to death by surgeons (first a toe or toes, then a lower leg, then an upper part of the leg, and so on?) after 56 years of fighting Type 1 diabetes. I think others have the right to make those decisions and more...not that they should HAVE to, just that they CAN. Factual research trumps theory and/or unreasoned emotion very time. | |||
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When I reach the point that I cannot make a valid input in my life decisions, no matter how happy I am pushing beans up my nose in a nursing home, I'm very comfortable with DNR. Do I want my kid or grand kids to remember me as a robust old man that liked to hunt and fish and go to ball games and knew a lot of really neat shit or do I want them to remember me as an old man in a nursing home that they HAD to go visit once a week/month and watch while he drooled down the front of his pj's? My daddy died almost 50 years ago from cancer. He was an active man that taught me a lot of stuff. I watched him wither away, day by day until he died. Today, when I think of him, I can realize that he taught me so very much. But when I look at him in my mind, I see a shrunken shell of a man that couldn't even feed himself and had to wear diapers. I understand it can be a slippery slope. Especially when you factor in greed and money. Don't expect the doctors/family to make decisions that are in your best interest; to them you're just a cash cow, one way or the other. your best and perhaps only guard against this is a living will and a will. Outlining exactly what you want. And you need to do it now. Not when you get sick or hurt. But now. Folks say "oh I've plenty of time" but they may not. Aim for the exit hole | |||
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Albert, I guess that list of folks against "right to die" was referring to me, but honestly I don't fit in there anywhere. None of it describes me. Anyway, I just came back from three hours of visiting someone close in a nursing home. A living will or anything in writing is out of the question to start with. But it wouldn't be necessary anyway. They're good about leaving that up to family in our experience. On past trips to the ER and ICU the doctors have explained things and left it up to us. And everyone is still around and doing reasonably well. What we're doing is a "modified DNR" per family directive. It's more flexible than a writing and can't be misinterpreted by hospital staff or some doctor we don't know. It amounts to playing it by ear and what happens will depend on the particular circumstances at the time. That means there may be treatment or there may not, but nothing "heroic" and no surgery. Now, for someone who has no family directly involved that doctors can turn to for decision input or for someone with very definite desires or a different sort of health situation I understand. | |||
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These days there are so many variations and possible complications to this type of decision-making; not the least of which would be blended families. Start throwing in ex-wives, step-children, jealous/greedy siblings, significant amounts of money, hard feelings, past grudges; and you have a potential mess that benefits only the lawyers involved. The luckiest bastard in the entire struggle may be the guy that died. | |||
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I was not pointing fingers at anyone. Basically, I agree with both Shack and Kensco when it comes to letting families or any others make decisions about when and how one is to go. A properly executed and notarized and witnessed living will overrides the family's wishes, the doctor's recommendations and all that B.S. But I was not referring to or writing about any of that. Letting ANYONE other than patient make the decision is very bad legal and/or medical practice IMHO. I was speaking of living wills(and DNR orders), and of the Right to Die With Dignity laws. In both those situations, it is ONLY the PATIENT who has made and/or can make the decisions. Oregon's Death With Dignity law gives a mentally sound patient the ability to choose painless, assisted, suicide, but only the patient can give the final injection, to himself or herself. It is also the patient who must personally apply for and be Board-authorized to get the approved drugs, physician assistance, and medical equipment. If they aren't mentally or physically capable of doing both of those things, then there is no approved "suicide" (look up the definition of suicide in the dictionary),and board approved, medically assisted, suicide is the ONLY thing the law legalizes. If anyone other than the patient takes any action that directly causes an unnatural death, that is homicide...justifiable or not depends on the exact circumstances of any individual case. My country gal's just a moonshiner's daughter, but I love her still. | |||
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I'll tell you where this gets real sticky. I personally think it's the toughest one of all. Not to do a ventilator in a clearly terminal case is easy in comparison. It's peg tubes. And I assume everyone interested enough to be following this subject knows what that means. You have a person, typically a heart attack or stroke case, and maybe some paralysis but not so bad they can't think (somewhat clearly), speak (though slurred) and maybe get about in a wheelchair. But, the swallowing ability is knocked out and they can never eat again. And they don't entirely understand they are on a peg tube. Deny the feeding tube and death is certain. What do you do? And, before anyone says it, leaving it up to the patient is not a real good solution once already on the thing. You just can't imagine the emotions involved in even going there. And there you are. I experienced that with someone close in a nursing home setting for five years. In any event, we've ruled it out for the next time around. | |||
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Once again we come back to QUALITY of life. Aim for the exit hole | |||
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Bring on the pain and the dimensia. Not going to have my kids or wife have my death on their hands, better place or not. They can leave me to rot in a chair facing a window if they have to, at least they won't have had a hand in my undoing. | |||
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A proper living will and a proper will removes any such responsibility from your next of kin. They don't have to angst over when or if to pull the plug. Aim for the exit hole | |||
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DNR and government sponsored euthanasia are two very different animals. Government approved euthansia becomes such an attractive alternative to long term care that doctors begin rationalizing and making the decision for the patient as a cost control mechanism, more and more without consulting the patient. It also disincentivises the development of research and drug development for a whole host of difficult and debilitating illnesses. Doctors tend to compartmentalize to begin with, and it's a very slippery slope to go from a patient's clinical advisor to a fiscal manager that loses sight of their patient's humanity. Especially in systems where they answer to commitees instead of patients. "Experience" is the only class you take where the exam comes before the lesson. | |||
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GOOD POST
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IMO, we're getting onto a slippery slope with regards to word choices and phraseology. I think "government sponsored" is a long ways from government permitted; and exactly why would a doctor pull the plug on an inert cash cow whose insurance is paying off like a slot machine? And too, the majority of research is grant driven so if they're not finding out "stuff", the money stops. As I have said before, pre-planning is the key to all of it. What dignity is there in laying in your own shit with tubes running out of every opening? Aim for the exit hole | |||
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Nothing in your last paragraph imacts what I said one way or the other. DNR is a choice everyone has today. Suicide is also a personal choice everyone has today. I don't want doctors or commitees deciding if it's time for my suicide, whether it's by euthanasia or they just won't prescribe drugs they think will be wasted on me. Along with the right to DNR is the right to fight to your last breat if that is how you want to go out. If you do your reasearch you'll find clandestine murder happening in every country with legal euthanasia. 60% of Dutch doctors admit anonymously that they have performed euthanasia on patients unilaterally without their consent. They claim they keow what was best for that patient. The Netherlands has bred legions of Angels of Death. "Experience" is the only class you take where the exam comes before the lesson. | |||
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Care to source this tidbit? xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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I read it on the internet.... It's not hard to find. It's been a topic in the Netherlands for a while now as they find unintended consequences that need to be addressed. Another hot topic in the Netherlands is the euthansia of newborns that have birth defects. I'll link you to one summary but if you google it, you'll find volumes written about how they're wrestling with the issue. While my link is an anti-euthanasia site, it ain't pretty, even for the pro-euthanasia group. Euthanasia "Experience" is the only class you take where the exam comes before the lesson. | |||
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Viva euthanasia!!! xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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ah yes, some more of those slippery words: "clandestine murder". I daresay that any doctor could be found guilty of that if you want to parse around on the definition of "is". A doctor that delivers a grossly mis-formed child that isn't too quick to administer life sustaining medicines; a doctor that doesn't break the speed limits on his way to the hospital emergency room when a demented senior makes their 5th or 6th trip to the hospital with cardiac arrest and so forth. If that's what you want, then go for it, but don't try to convince me that the path you take is the high road. It's merely your road. Aim for the exit hole | |||
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Ever heard of this scenario? To the ER in a major city with a 90 yr old who just came down with pneumonia. They give antibiotics. You ask the question "what would happen if no antibiotics". The doc answers "they die". So, you say "well, not much choice then". Response, words to effect, "you don't have to - many times it's not given". Another doc says "yeah, it's done that way almost every day - it's called benign neglect". I draw the line with that. Oh, once asked a doc the difference between good and bad surgeons and says he "it's whether they have the good hands". I say, "how do the ones who don't have good hands stay in business?" He says, "by your not knowing". I ask isn't there any way to tell which ones have the "good hands"? And says he with a laugh, "that's easy - by their kill ratios". Another conversation with the same doc about having to listen to relentless neurotic complaining from certain women we both knew, and I said "you know, I could see how someone disreputable and greedy could find a way to make a lot of money off them", and he says "there ARE such people, they're called psychiatrists". And with another doc I went on this duck hunting trip, 100 miles from home. I got real sick and it was an appendicitis. So he rushes me in his truck toward home. And we pass a sign pointing to a rural county's main hospital on the way. It was the place where he actually works two days every week and knew real well. I said, "listen, if it's all this serious, shouldn't we head there right now instead of taking a chance driving a lot farther?" And he says, "trust me, you don't want to go there, no matter what". | |||
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xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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Tough call, but he made it for himself....
xxxxxxxxxx When considering US based operations of guides/outfitters, check and see if they are NRA members. If not, why support someone who doesn't support us? Consider spending your money elsewhere. NEVER, EVER book a hunt with BLAIR WORLDWIDE HUNTING or JEFF BLAIR. I have come to understand that in hunting, the goal is not the goal but the process. | |||
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You can't argue with his decision. I guess the only thing I regret is that you don't get the wife's perspective. I couldn't care less about the sister's feelings, or that of his parents or other siblings. (That's probably a reflection of my own relationship with my extended family.) The decision if the accident had happened to me would have been between my wife and I, and most likely not made in the first 24-hours after the injury. That is probably when you are most depressed, and feeling pretty hopeless. I wonder what the odds are that he would have been glad he lived, if he had waited a month, or until the birth of the baby, to make that tough call. Maybe the outcome would have been the same; but maybe not. Sad story. RIP | |||
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There was a guy who was found dead in his tent at Yosemite, newspaper pitched it as a "tragedy". I don't see it, figure he had a nice day hiking in a beautiful park, a quiet evening by a campfire and a well-deserved night's sleep. He won the lottery... TomP Our country, right or wrong. When right, to be kept right, when wrong to be put right. Carl Schurz (1829 - 1906) | |||
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I had a good friend named Sheila that went on her vacation to St. Tomas.She had breast cancer + did'nt know it. She did her vacation + died in her sleep coming back. Our mutual friend was totally upset. I had to reinforce in her the blessing that Sheila had been given. No pain,in your sleep, on your way back from the V.I.Could you ask for anything more? I would like to die so easy. Never mistake motion for action. | |||
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