Perhaps a little insensitive in the current environment, but what the Hell. I'm not saying it. Betty White supposedly said it.

Betty White -

"Why do people say, 'grow some balls'? Balls are weak and sensitive.

If you wanna be tough, grow a vagina. Those things can take a pounding."

Yeah, but get a little sand in there and watch what happens...

As the arab said,"damned sand gets in everything".