My main carry is a Garthwaite LW Commander 230 hydra shok. For travel with my wife I carried a pocketlite 102 bjhp. She did NOT like the commander. I tried to get her up to speed on cond.1 etc. She didn't like cocked and locked. It bothered me that I wasn't confident she could operate it under pressure if I couldn't. She had always shot revolvers well....
Duh! KISS
So...pocketlite went down the road and replaced it w/ a pristine Det Spec. Just a suggestion. Is your partner up to speed on your carry?
Scott

I have carried well over 30 years carried my PPK during our wedding.

About the only thing a heard from the wife is do you have to cary at church I just said yes.

When she does carry its a 2.5 inch charter 357 loaded with +P 38s.

I found that a good small revolver is a great weapon for CCW.

I have carried every thing from a pocket 22 auto to my 44 redhawk most every day its a glock 23 now.